Sunday, July 18, 2010

Love Isn’t Everything. - False

"Love is not Love

Which alters when it alteration finds,

Or bends with the remover to remove:

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark

That looks on tempests and is never shaken;”

- An Excerpt From Sonnet 116 by William Shakespeare

Mention the word “Love” and it sets off Sparks everywhere. Heads bow gently, the heart drops its pride, eyes close and arms open a little. Love is the fire everyone Loves to get burnt with. Love is the quivering spring in every winter’s heart.

You don’t get it when you need it most but you often end up paying heavily for it. Experience teaches that Love is the most burning and perishable of all human passions. But certainly it is also the most human of all feelings with all the limitations and exaltations the word evokes. In Love, even the tiniest things count and nothing if forgotten and forgiven.

There is no better exercise to the heart than reaching down and reaching out for someone. But Love too has its own obstacles, ‘Self-Love’ causing a gamut of problems, our own ego and our self-regard. Love is just a choice. Love is a well from which we can drink only as much as we have put in. LOVE has always been about intention and action. That is why it is said that the opposite of Love is not hate but indifference, our apathy to act, our coldness in commitment. Those who do not choose to act in Love, who denies Love to others out of fear or loss, it is their lives which are barren and empty. Only they are the losers.

The strings of Love are like the strings of violin. Once you have learned how to play, then you must play with your heart. It then requires no map or chart. Love is not what you live for. Love is what makes it a little easier.

Love isn’t everything is as true as humans not having a heart. Love exists where there is Heart. So people go get some Love, it is not that difficult, Love only needs an Open Heart!

Saturday, July 10, 2010

The Case Of The Life, The Strife And The Oh, No!

Life perhaps has the most sarcastic kind of character. So far I haven’t regretted about anything at large, but just missed few things here and there, but still everything falls in place as the time passes by. Life is just the expectations of the unexpected. It sure does offer you many opportunities; you must be seriously a fucking dumb person (maybe a retard!) to avoid it! Anyway it is not up to you to choose those opportunities, it is just that you have already been awarded with those opportunities. For someone who really wants to succeed, he will just believe in himself. Few say Life is short, so you got to make the most of now. Few say Life is long, so you got time to live Life to the fullest. But I just want say, shut the fuck up and accept Life as it comes by! You need not make any choices, the choices have already been made. So, just accept the punishment for the mistake already committed. Life is never about age, it is neither enjoy-your-ice-cream-before-it-melts nor wine-which-gets-better-with-age. It is always a complexity, always been one. You always presume to have understood everything but eventually everything is fucked up for Real, it does show up in the end, the real side of Life. The ways of understanding Life by women may differ from those of men, but in the end they both end up “confused”. You cannot regret the decision you made during the course of your Life because you can do nothing about it. Happened has happened. Life is just about the gamut of dramatic emotions from grief to joy. It gives you many reasons to be happy, to be sad, to live, to die. But the reason is yours to justify what has been offered to you. Just do it without any regrets. Now Worrying was Yesterday, Expectations will be Tomorrow but Happiness is TODAY! Now I’m not the one who should be talking about how to live Life, but just fuck it। This is just my say, my view, my opinion. If you agree with me then ‘Phir Milenge Chalte Chalte’। If not words can’t describe how little I give a damn!